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Njie Family Salibo
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My Compound Family |
The 26th October saw the
Muslim festival of Eid-al-Adha, otherwise known as Tobaski in West Africa. It
celebrates the day Abraham was prepared to sacrifice his son, Isaac, to God. As
a result of his devotion and willingness to sacrifice his son in God’s name, God
stopped Abraham and provided him with a ram to sacrifice instead. It is
probably the most important time of year in the Islamic faith. Everyone travels
home to their families to celebrate and the pressure for each family to have a
ram to slaughter is enormous. Those that cannot afford a ram feel quite ashamed
that they cannot afford one for their family. In the morning, they go to the
prayer ground in their new or best clothes to pray with the local community. It
is much the same as at Koriteh, only it felt more crowded this year. It is
mainly the men who go and the women stay behind at home to prepare the lunch.
On return from the praying ground, the men change then they slaughter and skin
the ram, according to Islamic law. For those of a delicate disposition, skip to
the next paragraph! They dig a small hole in the ground and then place the ram
over this slit the ram’s throat and let the blood pour into the hole, where is
seeps into the ground. Then they skin the carcass and remove the meat. They
then keep some for themselves and give some to family and the remainder is
given as charity, to those who cannot afford a ram of their own. One of the 5
pillars of Islam is Zakat, the giving of charity, so this is a very important
aspect of Tobaski. Lamin walked out of the compound with a very large platter
of meat for the neighbours who did not have a ram of their own.
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Tobaski Ram (no longer!) |
After this, the cooking of
breakfast began. On the menu today and for the next few days was....any
guesses? Ram, ram and more ram. I even had the delight of eating ram’s
head...not once but twice! I wish I could say I was brave enough to try the
brain or tongue, but I looked for the meaty parts and ate them. Then after
lunch, as with Koriteh, groups of children came round in the sunglasses and new
clothes for Salibo. It was a nice day and I am glad that I have celebrated it
here in The Gambia as I suspect it is quite different to the UK.
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Lamin & Sarah |
After Tobaski I travelled to Kombos for Sarah’s wedding. She
arrived back, with her parents, to marry Lamin and Lilli and I were
bridesmaids. It was a lovely day and was good to catch up with her again. They
married in the registry office in Banjul. It was quite an event, about another
5 couples were also marrying. We were all squeezed into one room where everyone
was married one after the other. It was quite a surreal event what with the
registrar’s being quite a scary woman, not to mention her phone going off in
the middle of one of the marriages. Then there was the bride who kept falling
out of her dress and exposing herself to one and all, the canned drinks that
must be brought so that the marriage can go ahead!! We did wonder what they did
with 48 cans of drinks, per wedding that is. We worked out it was about 250 cans
for that day! Then it was to the place they had their first date for lunch,
which was lovely. After which we spent the afternoon lazing round her hotel
pool before heading out for some dancing in the evening.
But now is back to reality and work. I have another LCM
workshop on Saturday for the Cluster Monitors and trainers. Even some of the
Peace Corps in the area are coming along. So hopefully all will go well!